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The leadership decision that changed everything for me? Learning to pause before deciding. Research shows leaders make up to 35,000 decisions daily. Your brain wasn't designed for this volume. But it can be trained. I see this especially with women leaders - pressured to decide quickly to prove competence. The cost? McKinsey found executives waste 37% of resources on poor choices made under pressure. When I work with senior women leaders, we start with one truth: Your brain on autopilot isn't your best leadership asset. Here's what happens when you bring mindfulness to your decisions: 1. Mental Noise Quiets Down → The constant chatter in your head calms → You hear yourself think clearly → The signals that matter become obvious → One healthcare executive told me: "I finally stopped second-guessing every choice" 2. Emotional Wisdom Grows → You notice feelings without being controlled by them → You respond rather than react → Your decisions come from clarity, not fear → A tech leader in our program reported: "I stopped making decisions from a place of proving myself" 3. Intuition Becomes Reliable → Your body's wisdom becomes accessible → You detect subtle signals others miss → Research shows mindful leaders make 29% more accurate intuitive judgments → A finance VP shared: "I can now tell the difference between fear and genuine caution" 4. Stress No Longer Drives Choices → Pressure doesn't cloud your thinking → You stay composed when stakes are high → Your team feels your steadiness → As one client put it: "My team now brings me real issues, not sanitized versions" Have you noticed how your best decisions rarely come when you're rushed or pressured? The women I coach aren't learning to decide slowly. They're learning to decide consciously. Try these practices: 1. Before high-stakes meetings, take three conscious breaths 2. Create a "decision journal" noting your state of mind when deciding 3. Schedule 10 minutes of quiet reflection before making important choices Your greatest leadership asset isn't your strategy. It's the quality of your presence in the moment of choice. What important decision are you facing that deserves your full presence? 📚 Explore practical decision frameworks in my book - The Conscious Choice 🔔 Follow Bhavna Toor for more research-backed wisdom on leading consciously 💬 DM me to learn how our leadership programs help women leaders make conscious choices that transform their impact

Ambiguity is everywhere in today’s workplace. We’re often asked to make decisions without all the data, act before all the implications are known, or lead projects that shift midstream. This is the new rhythm of modern work. Professionals who thrive in these conditions have learned to stay grounded in uncertainty and manage the discomfort that comes with it. 💡 Here’s one practice to build this important soft skill: When facing a decision, generate three options, even if one feels like a stretch. Then step away for a short period. Give yourself a pause before evaluating them. When you return, reflect on: ❓ Which option feels most aligned with your principles or priorities ❓ What hesitations or questions arise as you revisit each choice ❓ What details you were inclined to overlook during the initial urgency This process trains your thinking to remain open longer. You gain clarity through reflection rather than speed. Professionals who develop this capacity tend to: 🏆 Respond more strategically when priorities shift 🏆 Avoid overconfidence in early assumptions 🏆 Recognize nuance in people and decisions 🏆 Foster stability and focus in moments of change In a professional world shaped by complexity and constant evolution, the ability to tolerate ambiguity has become one of the clearest markers of maturity and sound judgment. #ToleranceOfAmbiguity, #DecisionMaking, #StrategicThinking, #LeadershipDevelopment, #MentalAgility, #SoftSkills, Skiilify

Interviewing feels like one of the job search and career development skills that some people just *get,* while others are left scrambling to be perfect (or, at the very least, adequate). I've done hundreds of mock interviews with folks across different stages in their careers—from first-year students all the way to executives—and I've identified a few key strategies that support both the most confident and the most nervous interviewers. Here are the tips I keep coming back to to help people excel in their interviews, no matter if they're brushing up on their skills or building their toolkit from scratch ⬇️ ➡️ Remember that your greatest asset is silence—the power of the pause There will inevitably be a question or two that catches you off guard. I've been there, and it can be very unsettling. Rather than rush through an answer and risk bumbling over your words for several minutes, take a moment to pause, gather yourself, and set yourself up for a direct answer. ➡️ Mock interviewing is the best form of interview preparation Whether you bring in a mentor, a friend, a partner, or a tool like Careerspan or VMock, mock interviewing is the best way to get better at interviewing. Mock interviews enhance your confidence before the interview, reduce anxiety, help you perform better, and increase your likelihood of receiving an offer. Why wouldn't you set up a mock interview? ➡️ Prepare meaningful questions for your interviewer The conversation can go incredibly well, but if you leave your interviewer feeling like the questions you prepared lack substance or specificity, you may leave a poor taste in their mouth. Not only is the time ask questions helpful for you, the candidate, it's an evaluative aspect of the process for interviewers, helping them understand your critical thinking, intentionality, and values, among other things. ➡️ Support your claims with evidence Every response should come with evidence. The skills you're discussing, the projects you're talking about at a high level, the accolades you claim—they all need to be supported with evidence. I like to err on the side of details, and I tell my clients to do the same. Better yet, if there's an opportunity for you to drop a work sample in the chat or point to the evidence of your contributions on a website, share it! How do you prepare for interviews? 🤔

Making Big Business Decisions – A Thoughtful Approach Every now and then, we’re faced with big decisions—ones that can shape our future and aren’t easily undone. I recently found myself at a crossroads with an important choice, and it got me thinking… How do you really know if you’re making the right call? Decision-making is a skill, and like any skill, it can be refined. So, I wanted to share the thought process I used to weigh up my options—hopefully, it might be useful to you too. 1. Will This Move Me Forward? Before committing to anything, ask yourself: - Does this challenge push me to grow? - Will it improve my skills, leadership, or profile? - Do I feel energised and excited about it, or does it feel like a heavy weight? If a decision helps you grow and excites you, it’s worth serious consideration. 2. Does It Align with My Goals? Short-term wins are great, but do they serve the bigger picture? Consider: - Does this choice move me towards my long-term vision or just provide a quick win? - Will it accelerate my progress or pull me away from what truly matters? A decision should keep you on track, not lead you into distractions disguised as opportunities. 3. Is It Aligned with My Core Values? Your values define how you run your business and make decisions. Before committing, think: - Does this choice reflect my principles and ethics? - Will it enhance the culture of my business or create friction? If a decision doesn’t sit right with your values, it’s probably not the right move. 4. The Practical Stuff – Can I Actually Do This? Beyond strategy and values, there’s the reality check: - Do I have the time, energy, and resources to make this work? - What are the risks, and are they worth it? - What am I saying no to by saying yes to this? Every opportunity comes with an opportunity cost. Make sure it’s one worth paying. Big decisions don’t need to be made on impulse. When you take the time to step back, reflect, and test the decision against these key questions, you can gain the clarity and confidence in the path you choose.

🎯 Preparing for an Interview? Think Beyond Your Answers… Think About Your Audience. If you're getting ready for an interview, here’s something often overlooked: hiring managers are under pressure too. These busy professionals juggle multiple priorities, deadlines, and sometimes more than six back-to-back interviews in a single day. Their schedules are tight, their attention divided, and, like all of us, they’re only human. 🔍 What does this mean for you as a candidate? Your task isn’t just to answer questions; it’s to make it easy for the panel to see your fit. Imagine entering that room (or joining virtually) not as a list of qualifications but as someone prepared to communicate effectively and in a way that stands out amid their busy day. 🌟 Here are a few ways to make this happen: ✅ Tailor Your Preparation: Avoid generic answers. Instead, study the job description and prepare specific, relevant examples from your experience that highlight how you’ll add value and fit into the role. ✅ Structure Your Responses: Use a model like STAR(L) (Situation, Task, Action, Result, Learning) to create a clear narrative that showcases not only what you’ve achieved but also what you’ve learned and how that informs your future success. But remember, making this sound conversational and authentic takes practice, not robotic. ✅ Prepare a Strong Opening & Closing Statement: Kick off with a three-minute introduction that frames who you are, your alignment with the role, and what you bring to the team. Wrap up with a succinct closing that reinforces your interest and value—another chance to leave a lasting impression. ✅ Practice, Practice, Practice: Preparation is your route to mastery. Work through possible questions not as a one-off but in repeated practice sessions, refining your ability to adapt and deliver your responses smoothly. This is how you become memorable. 💡 The Goal? Go in prepared with great answers and a mindset of understanding. Recognise the panel's challenges and be the candidate who stands out for making their job easier. Remember, interviews are not just about you; they’re about showing the panel why you’re the right fit in a way that’s clear and easy to understand. Good luck, and give them a reason to remember you! #Recruiter #InterviewPreparation #Hiring

Creativity isn’t magic. It’s a muscle. You train it. Idea by idea. Experiment by experiment. Don’t wait for inspiration. You should engineer it instead. Sitting around hoping for brilliance to strike.... No point to this. Build systems that make ideas inevitable. Because creativity isn’t about just being gifted. It’s about being relentless. Think of your mind as a sandbox game. Every experience you collect. Every book you read. Every conversation you have. They’re all resources. Raw materials to be combined into something original. The problem? Most people never connect them. They consume. But they don’t create. They follow the script. But they never rewrite it. Without creativity, you repeat the past. You recycle ideas. You blend in. Which is fine, nothing bad at it. But, if you want to disrupt.. You need a different script. And that’s where curiosity comes in. Curiosity fuels exploration. It makes you question the rules... Then bend them. 7 Ways to train your Creativity: 1. Rewrite the Playbook - Rules teach you structure. - But true creativity happens when you bend them. - Learn the frameworks. Break them with purpose. 2. Cross-Pollinate Ideas - Connect unrelated concepts. - The best creators see connections everywhere. - Combine what others never think to. 3. Pattern Interrupt - Routine is creativity’s worst enemy. - Change your environment. - Change your inputs. Change your mind. 4. Know your Peak Creative Hours - Are you sharp in the morning? - Energized at night? - Time your creative work when your brain is at its best. 5.  Feed your Mind with Intention - Your creativity is only as good as your inputs. - Unfollow noise. Seek high-quality knowledge. - Read what challenges your thinking 6. Play with Constraints - Deadlines. Word limits. - Tight frameworks. - Restrictions force innovation. 7. Move to unlock your Mind - Stuck? Don’t force it. - Step away. Walk. Change locations. - Physical movement rewires your brain for better ideas. This isn’t about waiting for inspiration. It’s about making creativity a habit. And with this habit... You reimagine what's possible. --- P.S. – This image is copyrighted. Please ask for permission before using it. Repost ♻️ if you find this useful. Hit the 🔔 if you enjoy my content.

𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙙 124 𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙡𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨!  This was for a recent job opening I posted for a clinical psychologist for my company. After evaluating 124 CVs, shortlisting 20 candidates for interviews, and selecting only two finalists, I’ve gathered a few tips to help psychology students and professionals apply for jobs the right way. 1. 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐣𝐨𝐛 𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐚 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐥𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠! One of the biggest mistakes I saw was applicants applying for a Clinical Psychologist position without the required qualifications. Almost half of the applications came from candidates without an MPhil in Clinical Psychology, even though it was clearly stated in the eligibility criteria. 𝐇𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐦𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫’𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐜𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐩𝐬𝐲𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐲, 𝐌𝐏𝐡𝐢𝐥 𝐢𝐧 𝐫𝐞𝐡𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐩𝐬𝐲𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐲, 𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐏𝐆𝐃𝐂𝐏 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐜𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐩𝐬𝐲𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐢𝐬𝐭. Filling out an application despite not meeting the basic requirements can get your CV blacklisted in an organization and harm your professional reputation. 2. 𝐁𝐞 𝐇𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐀𝐩𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 A major disappointment during the interviews was candidates mentioning certifications in various therapy approaches but failing to answer even the simplest questions from that therapy school. If you mention completing a DBT course, you should at least be able to explain basic DBT principles. Even a simple, well structured CV with just your degree and clear concepts is more attractive than a CV filled with fancy certifications that you don’t actually understand. 3. 𝐀𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝 𝐔𝐧𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐂𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐦𝐬 Some candidates mentioned handling 7+ therapy sessions per day while studying full time. This creates two impressions: either you’re lying or you’re at the edge of burnout, both of which raise red flags for recruiters. 𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐓𝐢𝐩𝐬 If you’re a psychology student preparing for job interviews, here are some questions I asked candidates during the hiring process: 1. What do you do when a therapy session isn’t going well? 2. If a client presents suicidal thoughts, what immediate steps would you take? 3. Which therapy approach do you follow and the basic principles and models from the same. 4. If using an eclectic approach, Explain the key differences between cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychodynamic therapy, and humanistic therapy. When would you choose one over the other? 5. If using an eclectic approach, Suppose a client with OCD reports spending 6 hours a day checking locks and washing hands. How would you approach treatment using CBT, DBT, Psychodynamic, Psychoanalytic and behavioural approach? How do you decide which to use with what kind of client? 6. If a client tells you, “Therapy is not helping me at all. I feel like giving up,” how would you handle this situation? Let me know if this helps. #interview #job #psychology #tips

Decisions dictate your success. 7 frameworks to master decision making: The decisions you make, big and small, shape your entire career. But great decision-making isn't magic, it's a skill you can consciously develop. With the right frameworks, you can move from just reacting to strategically choosing your best path forward. ➡️ BONUS IDEA: Talk your decisions through with someone. It's incredible how much clearer we think when discussing things with a trusted advisor. Here are 7 I've found invaluable: 1. The OODA loop Observe → Orient → Decide → Act. A powerful cycle for rapid, adaptive decisions in changing landscapes. The faster you complete the loop, the sharper your choices become. 2. Pareto principle (80/20 rule) Focus on the 20% of actions yielding 80% of your results. Success isn't about more activity; it's about the *right* activity. 3. Amazon's door framework 🚪 Classify decisions: - One-way doors: Irreversible. Go slow, be thorough. - Two-way doors: Reversible. Decide quickly, iterate. Most are two-way. Don't treat them like they're set in stone. 4. First principles thinking - Break problems down to their absolute basic truths. - Then rebuild your solution from that solid ground. - Question every assumption. 5. Eisenhower matrix Prioritise by urgency and importance: - Urgent and important: Do it now. - Important, not urgent: Schedule it. - Urgent, not important: Delegate it. - Neither: Eliminate it. Stop overanalysing tasks that don't matter. 6. Inversion thinking - Instead of "How do I succeed?" - Ask: "How could this fail?" Then avoid those pitfalls. - Often, simply sidestepping disaster is your best move. 7. Jeff Bezos' regret minimisation framework - Project yourself to age 80. - Ask: "Will I regret NOT doing this?" - The sting of regret can far outweigh the risk of trying. Have you used any other frameworks for decision making? Let me know in the comments👇 --- Enjoy this? ♻️ Repost it to your network and follow Owain for more.

Interview prep isn't about memorising answers. It's about surfacing what makes you credible, capable and compelling. If you're preparing for an interview right now, here’s what I’d focus on — especially for roles where you’re stepping up or sideways: ✈️ Understand the challenge What’s the business problem this role exists to solve? Go beyond the job description. Read between the lines. Research the team, function, and wider business priorities. ❤️ Align your story Can you clearly explain how your experience and mindset equip you to meet that challenge? Don’t just list responsibilities. Frame your journey as a series of decisions, pivots, and outcomes that led you here. ✈️ Show impact, not activity How have you made a difference? Think: what changed because you were in the room? Bring sharp, specific examples with a clear ‘so what?’. ❤️ Reflect on the role you play What do people count on you for? How do you influence others, especially when you’re not the loudest voice? These are often the signals hiring managers really listen for. ✈️ Be coachable, not perfect Interviews aren’t a test of flawlessness. They’re a chance to explore your potential. Show where you’ve learned, grown, failed and adapted — that’s what most high-performing teams value.

Your interview prep could be why you're not getting offers. If you Google "top 10 interview questions." If you memorize canned answers that sound like everyone else. If you freeze when they ask something you didn't script. That's not prep. That's self-sabotage. Here's a framework that actually works: 1️⃣ Build a story bank Write down 3–5 concrete examples that prove your value. Not responsibilities. Not buzzwords. Real situations where you solved problems and delivered results. 2️⃣ Use the PAR-3 method Every story needs: → The right Problem (what was broken) → The right Actions (what YOU did) → The right Result (the measurable outcome) Keep it tight. No rambling. No filler. 3️⃣ Map stories to the job Pull up the job description. Circle the 5-6 must-have skills. Match one of your stories to each skill. Now you're speaking their language. 4️⃣ Practice with feedback Record yourself answering out loud. Watch it back. Cringe a little. Fix it. Better yet, practice with someone who'll call out the weak spots. You don't need perfection. You need clarity and confidence. 5️⃣ Prep your questions Interviews aren't one-way auditions. Ask about what success looks like in the role. Ask about team dynamics. Ask what challenges they're facing. Top candidates evaluate the company just as hard as they're being evaluated. 6️⃣ Regulate your mindset Stop treating interviews like interrogations. You're not begging for a job. You're exploring if this is a mutual fit. Walk in calm. Walk in ready. Walk in knowing your worth. The average candidate hopes to survive the interview. The best candidates walk in ready to win it. What's the worst curveball question you've been asked? Let's compare notes below.